Showing posts with label struggles. Show all posts
Showing posts with label struggles. Show all posts

Monday, April 9, 2012

Sparse Candy Floss.....

Not alot around in the Magazine world this holiday weekend but still enough to keep us going!
Kate`s Baby Struggle....oh really.
Poor Princess Beatrice...the royals won`t give her any Official Duties, most upsetting as she has nothing else to do and its Granny's big Jubilee...
Is cousin Zara hiding something under her coat? Brother Peter has just welcomed his second daughter.
Seal is in tears over Heidi`s new man....
Bruce Willis has daughter No 4! while Robbie Williams cries with joy over his wife`s pregnancy....
Danni Minogue and Kris Smith split...apparently she is not easy to live with!
Did Ange cheat on Brad with her first husband when they first hooked up?
Jen tells whats his face to propose or else....
Ronan Keating`s wife calls it quits...did a cellphone ring the wrong number.
Coco and Ice share the secrets of their love match...plastic and plenty of it by the looks of things!
Minnie Driver and her toyboy frolic in the sea! Mel B and her two youngest enjoy a day at the beach...gosh how ordinary!
Alec Baldwin proposes...
Jennie Garth shares her marriage woes...
Peaches Geldof is blooming...less than a month and the Old Boomtown Rat himself will be a Grandpa!
Hosea Gear introduces his twins...cute as but another boring Rugby story...
Piri Weepu`s battle for his girls..its actually simple Piri, if you don`t want to miss a thing, live in the same city maybe even in the same house!!
Whitney Houston's final hours revealed...a very sad and sorry saga.
Melodie Robinson makes a stand for Mothers who find breastfeeding difficult...way too go girl!
Miranda Kerr is Who Weeklys Most Beautiful for 2012...a very glam and glossy issue, its so glossy in fact that you want to pat it!
Octomom is on welfare...big surprise that!
Sam Hayes is back and tells of her ghastly experience with the saintly Kardashian sisters, Kim and Khloe.
There are lots of articles this week relating to the sinking of the Titanic, a hundred years ago next week...sad but true they didn`t see the Iceberg, well they did actually but not in time.

Saturday, January 29, 2011

Chosen by Chandra Hoffman


Chloe Pinter, the central character in this gripping novel is young, idealistic and truly wants to make her Clients happy, her motive to create Families is noble but sadly Chloe is not really able to take into account the agendas, desires, longings and motivations of those she so wants to serve. Chloes blindspot is her inability to factor in the struggles, stresses and strains that the life change of parenthood bring, equally the consequences for those that give up their baby for adoption are not painted into her picture and lead her and two of her clients down the a path that no one could imagine. Adoption is a biggie in the U.S. and private agencies appear to be a dime a dozen, although there are rules and regulations these vary from agency to agency and state to state and the competition for the Birth Mother is brutal, what about Birth Fathers is a question this book raises in a very powerful and compelling way, do they matter? Do they have rights? This book also raises the question of adoption motivation, get as much out of the agency and then change your mind, this appears to be an often seen scenario, the other side of the coin is why do couples wish to adopt? Do both partners feel the same? What happens when they don't?

This book was gritty and very real, short chapters, interlinked characters, multiple narrators and it worked beautifully, it also asked the question do we ever really know what we want?Could it be that sometimes we want what everyone else has and what society tells us we should have, are we sometimes so bound to expectation that we become blind to the wants and needs of those closest to us, a thought provoking book.